When life hands you lemons, you make lemonade, right Well, living in the Big Apple gives you the choice of making apple pie. But there is one Big Apple feat that isnt easy as pie, and thats companionship. I know what youre thinking tel lthat to all the lovesick fools kissing on the trains and on the street It can be tough living in the city that never sleeps or slows down to find that special someone. You may have to kiss a few toads to get your prince charming.

The problem is many people get discouraged about the opposite sex when they encounter a few of the bad apples. Some people say that it is all about dating. You have to get out there and date in order to find what you like and what you dont. But the hard part is finding people to date. Where do you go to meet decent people You can start by going to random places that you enjoy. Try your favorite bookstore. If you enjoy reading, maybe youd get along well with someone who enjoys reading as well. Enjoy the sound of vinyl Keep your eyes open at your record store. Maybe your prince loves music, too. There is nothing better than meeting someone with your interests. If you like cooking and you find yourself at the grocery constantly picking up new ingredients, let your next stop at produce be a beneficial one. Maybe your man will be squeezing tomatoes right next to you. Dont be on the lookout, but just scope the scene. Make sure that some form of eye contact is made and a connection is established. Dont let your prince get away. Do something to catch his eye.

Many men like women to approach them. Say something funny or interesting. You never get a second chance for a first impression, so make it a good one. A common misconception is that men are supposed to approach women. It shouldnt always be that way. A woman should not be afraid to speak to a man she is attracted to. Whether the man or woman is doing the approaching, remember that it all starts with the approach.